The Empowered Wife Podcast: Marriage Help with Laura Doyle 164: Insights from the Husband of an Empowered Wife: Part 1
Jan 10, 2023
A husband shares how the Connection Framework and intimacy skills transformed his marriage. He discusses the challenges they faced, emphasizing the importance of communication. The male perspective sheds light on what makes a man feel desired and valued. He reflects on overcoming a mother-son dynamic to achieve equality in their partnership. They also explore the significance of shared interests and emotional safety in nurturing deep connections. Lastly, heartfelt insights on love, commitment, and gratitude round out their transformative journey.
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Feeling Inadequate and Criticized
- Samuel felt inadequate, like he could never meet his wife's expectations, despite his efforts.
- He felt constantly criticized, leading to feelings of resentment and a sense of being unappreciated in the marriage.
Loss of Attraction and Cultural Differences
- Samuel wasn't attracted to Sage anymore and felt embarrassed by her in crowds.
- Sage was often embarrassed by Samuel and attempted to control his behavior, especially his direct communication style.
Isolation and Anger in Guatemala
- Samuel initially swallowed criticism but eventually exploded in anger due to loneliness and inability to communicate in Guatemala.
- He felt isolated and would withdraw for days, creating further distance in the marriage.
