Become New with John Ortberg

33. How to Be Gentle

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Oct 10, 2025
Discover the radical call for gentleness in today's world. Explore how Paul contrasts gentleness with traditional zeal, a quality he admired before a life-changing encounter. Reflect on the significance of gentleness, highlighted through literary characters and personal stories. Learn about Jesus' redefinition of zeal, transforming it from violence to self-giving love. This enlightening conversation encourages listeners to embody gentleness, making it a powerful, visible trait in their lives.
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ADVICE

Make Gentleness Your Public Mark

  • Let your gentleness be evident to all instead of insisting on your rights or brilliance.
  • Root your demeanor in Jesus so gentleness, not power, defines how others see you.
INSIGHT

Gentleness Is Transformative Strength

  • Gentleness is not weakness but a transformative character quality tied to sweet reasonableness.
  • It refuses strict legalism and honors the integrity of others rather than standing on rights.
ANECDOTE

Atticus Finch As A Model

  • Tim Williams uses Atticus Finch as an example of humble moral courage that looks weak but acts decisively.
  • Atticus never boasts about his abilities yet defends the defenseless and only uses force when necessary.
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