

191: Who Have I Become? – A Deeper Cut Series (Part 3)
18 snips Jul 15, 2025
This exploration dives into how fear and shame shape our identities. The hosts discuss the transformative journey from false selves to a more authentic existence, using Eustace's story as a metaphor. They examine personal growth through experiences like marriage and creative activities, while also addressing styles of relating and the importance of self-awareness. The conversation encourages moving from shame to love-based curiosity and highlights the necessity of creating space for God to work in our lives, leading to gradual, meaningful change.
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Eustace's Dragon Skin Metaphor
- Morgan retells Eustace Scrubb's transformation into a dragon and back in The Voyage of the Dawn Treader as a metaphor for false self and spiritual transformation.
- He emphasizes that Eustace couldn't remove the dragon skin himself and needed Aslan's fierce mercy to become human again.
Shame Spurs The False Self
- Morgan argues shame leads us to hide and adopt false, self-protective identities after the Fall.
- He frames becoming true as a journey of coming home to our embodied, eternal selves in union with God.
Pausing In Marriage To Let God Advocate
- Morgan shares a marital moment where he noticed his activation and paused the conversation to avoid harming Sherry, then sought God the next morning.
- He describes discovering a younger part needing initiation and learning to let Jesus be his advocate instead of self-advocating.