The Will Spencer Podcast

ALISON ARMSTRONG | Partnership Is a Triumph of Spirit

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Sep 9, 2021

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The Worth It Equation Is Worth It

Will Interviewing a Woman?

The Queen's Code

Women Listening to Men

I Would End My Own Life if It Made Someone's Life Better

How Far Back Does It Go?

Sex Drive, I'm Sorry, Go Ahead

Go With the Winds

The Woman Knows What the Right Thing Is

The Ideal Ideal Person Is a Woman

You Don't Know the Right Standard of Behavior

I Know You Love Me, but You Don't Respect Me, Right?

Women Don't Focus, You Know?

The Queens Code

The Queen's Code

Are You Not Paying Attention to Me?

Are You Unhappy to Keep Your Attention on Me?

01:01:50 • 2min

You Don't Set Me Free by Your Own Happiness, Right?

01:03:49 • 4min

The Queen's Code

01:08:06 • 3min

Is the Word That Men Tend to Use?

01:11:25 • 4min

Is There a Future in Fiction?

01:15:02 • 2min

The Qs - The Kingdom

01:17:17 • 5min

Jack Is Jack Is Rowell's Best Friend

01:22:31 • 4min

Women Writers - Is There a Balance Between Men and Women?

01:26:10 • 1min

Women Writers, You Can Start This Process of Transformation

01:27:35 • 5min

The Renaissance of Men - Is That Really Possible?

01:32:24 • 4min

How Do I Get Back Together With a Man?

01:36:44 • 4min

What Are My Possibilities for for Overriding?

01:40:25 • 3min

How a Man Used to Protect His Daughter

01:43:38 • 4min

Do You Have Input in Your Relationship With a Man?

01:47:08 • 4min

The Renaissance of Men's Relationships

01:50:40 • 4min

The Dependency of Women on Men for Security

01:54:21 • 2min

Is There a Partnership?

01:56:34 • 3min

Clarity, Consistency, and Appreciation Are All Necessary

01:59:44 • 3min

What if You Don't Have the Courage to Ask?

02:02:54 • 3min

The Gift of Appreciation, You Know?

02:05:49 • 2min

The Renaissance Man, the Renaissance of Men, Can I Tell You What's Before It?

02:07:28 • 6min

The Innocence of Men

02:13:21 • 4min

I'll Be Speaking at the 21 Convention and the 22 Convention for Women

02:17:34 • 4min

Is There a Gravitational Attraction Between Men and Women?

02:21:11 • 3min

What I Love About What You're Saying Is That They're True

02:23:58 • 2min

We All Have Ultimatums, I've Been Learning Yours Since We Met

02:26:09 • 4min

Can I Give It to Him Without Sacrificing Myself

02:29:51 • 3min

I'll Pay for It if It's This, Right?

02:32:45 • 2min

Men and Women in Relationships - Is There a Ultimatum?

02:34:43 • 2min

Healthy Diet Healthy Lifestyle Consistently

02:36:57 • 4min

Is There a Difference?

02:40:48 • 3min

Do You Mean Enough to Me?

02:44:09 • 5min

You Take Care of Each Other, What a Novel Idea?

02:48:40 • 2min

The Queen's Code

02:50:26 • 3min

How Important Is Clarity and Consistency and Appreciation?

02:53:53 • 5min

Don't Give Up Things That Are Important to You

02:59:03 • 3min

Are You Looking for Non-Starters in a Relationship?

03:01:34 • 5min

What Do You Need From Me?

03:07:04 • 4min

The Language of Heroes

03:10:57 • 1min

The Language of Heroic Women

03:12:00 • 5min

The Language of Heroes Is Not a Translation

03:17:18 • 5min

Give Up the Right to Emaciate Men Forever

03:22:03 • 4min

I Can't Ask or Tell, I Don't Know What I Want

03:26:18 • 4min

I'm a Man and the Expectation That I Be Superhuman and Simultaneously That I'll Be a Piece of Shit

03:29:57 • 2min

Women's Health and Relationships

03:31:33 • 5min

The Queen's Code - What You Mean About Men in Their Sex Drive?

03:36:26 • 4min

What Are Some of Your Achievements and Experiences?

03:39:57 • 5min

Understanding Men Online Course and Understanding Women Online Course

03:44:29 • 3min

Are You Active on Social Media at All?

03:47:57 • 2min

The Great Reconciliation

03:49:38 • 3min

Is There a Middle Ground?

03:52:51 • 4min

Alison Armstrong is an internationally acclaimed educator and expert on understanding men, women, and relationships. She’s also the bestselling author of “The Queen’s Code.”

Yes, the Renaissance of Men podcast is about men and masculinity, but in her book, Alison writes, “To know men is to love them.” To me, that earns her a seat at the table.

Because Alison has spent 30 years — yes, three decades — studying men, and has devoted her life to explaining men to women. Her goal is to improve human relationships so we can begin building heaven on Earth.

This ties into my goal to help create The Great Reconciliation, which marks the coming together of men and women in a space of mutual respect, understanding, and appreciation.

Because men and women are meant for each other.

“The Queen's Code” paints a picture of what reconciliation might look like, not in some grand vision, but in the homes and everyday lives of eight characters. It is a book of wonders, full of sincere appreciation and honoring of men.

And my hope with this podcast is that you'll see, as I do, that in our world of shattered trust between men and women, Alison, the book's author, is worthy of your trust.

Give Alison just 17 minutes and I think she’ll earn your trust, like she has mine.

In our conversation we discussed:

Dependence, independence, and interdependence between men and women
Ultimatums, and what they mean to women vs. men
What women's independence is for, and how they can think about giving it up, and what they'll get in return
The difference between "non-starters" in new relationships vs. "not-forevers" in existing relationships
And finally, The Language of Heroes, which is a method for women to communicate their needs to men in a way which “speaks to the heart, soul and spirit of a man. It calls to him, rouses him, honors him."

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And that, ultimately, is why I'm hosting a woman on the Renaissance of Men.

Because alongside Jack Donovan, Tanner Guzy, Warren Farrell, Ryan Michler, Robert Bly, Anthony Johnson, Douglas Gillette, David Deida, Elliot Hulse, Jordan Peterson, and so many of my greatest teachers about men and masculinity, there's one who's spoken from a perspective that none of them can.

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LINKS:

Buy “The Queen’s Code” on Amazon and LuLu.com

Follow Alison Armstrong on Instagram and Twitter

Watch Alison’s videos on YouTube

Visit Alison’s website: https://www.alisonarmstrong.com/

View a list of her bestselling products

More links here: https://linktr.ee/alisonarmstrong

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