Become Good Soil
178: The Sex Talk You Never Got, with Sam Jolman (Part 1)
Jan 15, 2025
In this engaging discussion, Sam Jolman, a Christ-centered therapist with over 20 years of experience, shares insights from his book, "The Sex Talk You Never Got." He explores how societal pressures create shame around masculine sexuality and highlights the transformative power of vulnerability and self-exploration. The conversation dives into the importance of emotional connection in relationships, the value of sensuality beyond mere sexual intimacy, and the need for deeper trust in connections. It's a journey towards reclaiming innocence and understanding one's identity.
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Quick takeaways
- Reconnecting with sexual desires through curiosity can lead to personal healing and a more authentic understanding of one's sexuality.
- Establishing open discussions around sexual education is crucial for men to overcome feelings of shame and isolation regarding their sexual identities.
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Reconnecting with Masculine Sexuality
Temptations and desires are often viewed negatively, but they can represent an invitation for men to reconnect with their sexuality. Many men tend to disown their sexual desires, pushing them into the shadows, which may stem from cultural or personal shame associated with their sexuality. By exploring these feelings with curiosity rather than avoidance, men can find opportunities for healing and integration within themselves. Addressing the underlying issues tied to these desires allows for a more authentic connection to one’s sexuality, emphasizing that being aware of and engaging with these feelings is essential for personal growth.
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