Become Good Soil 178: The Sex Talk You Never Got, with Sam Jolman (Part 1)
Jan 15, 2025
In this engaging discussion, Sam Jolman, a Christ-centered therapist with over 20 years of experience, shares insights from his book, "The Sex Talk You Never Got." He explores how societal pressures create shame around masculine sexuality and highlights the transformative power of vulnerability and self-exploration. The conversation dives into the importance of emotional connection in relationships, the value of sensuality beyond mere sexual intimacy, and the need for deeper trust in connections. It's a journey towards reclaiming innocence and understanding one's identity.
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Men Disown Sexuality in Shame
- Men often disown their sexuality due to lack of meaningful conversation and inherent shame.
- Lust and temptation can be invitations to reconnect and integrate sexuality with kindness and curiosity.
Recover Sexual Innocence and Aliveness
- Recover sexual innocence and aliveness to restore the goodness of masculinity.
- Believe your sexual aliveness can be restored with God's help for meaningful change.
Sexual Response Rooted in Story
- Sam experienced stiffening and rejection in response to his wife's sexual affection.
- This was rooted in a misogynistic vow and past wounds, revealing deeper story in sexuality.