The GoodLion Podcast
A Raw Conversation On Sex Scenes, Christians, and Media - (GoodLion Classic Episode)
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Quick takeaways
- Media that depicts violence can be enjoyed when it serves a purpose of justice, protection, or the triumph of good over evil.
- Nudity within the private, committed, and loving relationship of marriage can be healthy, while nudity used to objectify or gratify sexual desires outside of that context is damaging.
- Watching sexual content or nudity with the intention of gratifying sexual desires, even if no actual sexual act takes place, can create unhealthy perceptions and teach damaging thoughts about sexuality.
- Enjoying simulated violence for competitive, protective, or justice-oriented purposes is not inherently wrong, but finding satisfaction in violence for its own sake or deriving pleasure from seeing others hurt is damaging to the soul.
Deep dives
Violence and destruction in media
Media that depicts violence can be enjoyed when it serves a purpose of justice, protection, or the triumph of good over evil. However, enjoying violence for destruction's sake or deriving satisfaction from real harm to others is wrong.
Sexuality, nudity, and context
Nudity is not inherently wrong, but the context and intentions behind it matter. Nudity within the private, committed, and loving relationship of marriage can be healthy, while nudity used to objectify or gratify sexual desires outside of that context is damaging.
Lust and gratification
Watching sexual content or nudity with the intention of gratifying sexual desires, even if no actual sexual act takes place, can create unhealthy perceptions and teach damaging thoughts about sexuality. Enjoying violence or destruction in media, even if it doesn't lead to real-life harm, can still promote a distorted perspective and desensitize us to the value of life.
Desire and enjoyment of violence
Enjoying simulated violence for competitive, protective, or justice-oriented purposes is not inherently wrong. However, finding satisfaction in violence for its own sake or deriving pleasure from seeing others hurt is damaging to the soul. It is essential to discern our intentions and the effects media has on us.
The Power of Sexual Imagery and Its Influence
This podcast episode delves into the power of sexual imagery in media and its influence on individuals. The hosts discuss the normalization of explicit scenes and the dangers of objectifying others. They highlight how these images can trigger desires and lead to destructive behaviors. The episode acknowledges that certain shows or movies may not affect everyone in the same way, but it emphasizes the importance of recognizing and removing any content that causes one to stumble.
The Influence of Sexuality on Relationships
The hosts explore the impact of sexual imagery on relationships, particularly in dating and marriage. They discuss how exposure to explicit scenes can create unrealistic expectations and breed dissatisfaction and infidelity. The episode points out that healthy sexuality within marriage is rooted in selflessness and a deep connection, whereas porn and explicit media promote selfishness and objectification. It emphasizes the necessity of guarding relationships and avoiding content that undermines true intimacy.
The Link Between Sexual Imagery and Sin
The podcast addresses the biblical perspective on sexual imagery and sin. Drawing from passages such as Matthew 5:28, the hosts emphasize that even looking at a person with lustful intent is considered sinful. They discuss the progression from desire to sin and the damaging consequences it can have on one's life. The episode concludes by highlighting the importance of actively cutting out any content that leads to sin and striving for inward purity in line with God's kingdom values.
Welcome to a classic two-part episode of The GoodLion Podcast! It's a marathon not a sprint as Brian and Aaron dive into the complex issue of violence, sex and nudity in media.
The popular show Game of Thrones sparked many conversations about how Christians should consume media with sex scenes. These episodes, recorded in 2019, tackle that debate head on with nuance, depth and understanding.
Brian and Aaron explore whether Christians should watch sex scenes and potential impacts on the soul. They discuss the complex factors at play, from Biblical principles to practical effects on one's heart and mind.
While some argued for a simple "yes it's sin" approach, our hosts Brian and Aaron believe complex issues deserve complex conversations.
These episodes mark a turning point in the show where Aaron and Brian found their groove as co-hosts, leaning into the heart of The GoodLion mission – seeking answers to complicated issues while avoiding simplistic responses. As Aaron points out, one of our guiding mantras has always been "no easy answers," drawing us to dive deep and point listeners to the God who is not safe, but who is very good.
We hope these classic episodes spark meaningful discussion and thought-provoking reflection as you wrestle with how to engage media in a way that honors God and your conscience. Brian and Aaron hope these episodes speak to you, challenge you and ultimately point you to how to follow Christ well in our postmodern culture.
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