In this engaging discussion, Neylan McBaine, a community leader and author of 'Women at Church', reflects on a decade since her influential book's release. She bravely addresses the impact of patriarchy in faith communities, inviting listeners to consider the complex experiences of women. Joseph Grenny adds depth as he talks about the importance of merging conference unity with church practices. Together, they explore the evolving roles of women, advocating for more visibility and self-actualization within the Latter-day Saint Church.
Neylan McBaine highlights the complexities of women's experiences in churches while navigating the challenges posed by patriarchal structures.
The podcast emphasizes the importance of open discussions to amplify women's voices and foster an inclusive environment within spiritual communities.
Deep dives
Addressing Patriarchy in Faith Communities
The episode tackles the issue of patriarchy within faith communities, particularly highlighting how it affects women's experiences in the church. Nyla McBain points out that while some members may not perceive patriarchy as a significant issue, many women, especially younger ones, feel constrained by the existing structures. She emphasizes the need for open discussions about the impact of patriarchal systems on women's roles, encouraging an exploration of the complexities that arise from this tension. By acknowledging these challenges, the episode seeks to foster understanding and create a more inclusive environment for women in spiritual spaces.
Personal Reflections and Evolution of Women's Roles
Nyla reflects on the past decade since her book, 'Women at Church,' was published, discussing both the positive changes and the ongoing challenges women face. She cites a recent policy adjustment that allows young women to take on visible roles in sacrament meetings as a step forward, recognizing this small change as a meaningful shift toward inclusion. Despite these improvements, Nyla mourns the notable gaps in gender parity, illustrating her concerns with personal anecdotes and experiences that showcase the inconsistencies within leadership decisions. She encourages local leaders to take initiative in amplifying women's voices and contributions, stressing the importance of collective effort to uplift women in their communities.
Navigating Faith and Personal Identity
The episode delves into the struggle of balancing personal faith with the institutional challenges posed by patriarchy. Nyla shares her journey of navigating her commitment to her faith while recognizing the need for self-actualization beyond traditional roles assigned to women. She advocates for the development of skills that empower women, allowing them to assert their identities within the church context without being limited by it. The discussion invites participants to engage in a transformative process, fostering environments where women can thrive as equal members of their faith communities.
We have decided to share with you 2-3 sessions from our recent Restore gathering to give you a taste of what took place during this amazing weekend. Last week we shared Joseph Grenny’s incredible message. It was an instant classic. . Today, we’re honored to bring you another really special moment from Restore. In a powerful, unflinching, and faithful presentation, our friend and community leader Neylan McBaine addressed an “elephant in the room” that so often goes unnamed: our experience with patriarchy in our faith communities. We think it’s important to note that many members don’t necessarily experience patriarchy as a big problem, but many do, so our hope is that what Neylan shares here can offer new understanding and illustrate the frustration and pain that many women, perhaps especially younger women, experience in our patriarchal church organization.
In 2014, Neylan published her book Women at Church. In this address, she looks back at the decade since the book’s release and explores the tension between the way many women experience Church and a deep commitment to our faith and community. It’s an invitation to wrestle with complexity, to hold space for discomfort, and explore how we can do better in bringing womens gifts more fully into the body of Christ.
We also want to mention that there is a part 2 of this conversation where Neylan is joined by therapist and podcaster Valerie Hamaker. Valerie offered insights into the empowering inner work of differentiation—how women can hold on to our spiritual authority while also staying engaged in the community we love. It's the practical application part of this session. That part two will be available as part of the digital access to Restore which you still can get digital tickets to at faithmatters.org/restore. As always, we encourage you to watch these episodes on the Faith Matters Youtube channel to get the full experience. Make sure to go to youtube and subscribe.
We truly hope you find as much wisdom and inspiration in this conversation as we did. And with that, we’ll hand it over to Neylan McBaine at Restore.
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