Helping Couples Heal Podcast

80. Money and Betrayal with Deb Kaplan

Mar 11, 2025
Deb Kaplan, a licensed therapist and former Wall Street professional, joins the conversation to unravel the often overlooked connection between money and betrayal in relationships. They dive into the emotional turmoil stemming from financial infidelity and the importance of fostering open communication and financial intimacy. Kaplan also advocates for understanding personal histories and cultural influences on financial dynamics, emphasizing the need for trust and cooperation to heal from trauma together.
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ANECDOTE

Childhood Observations

  • Debra Kaplan's parents constantly argued about money, impacting her view on finances.
  • Her father's anxiety and mother's secretive spending created a tense dynamic.
INSIGHT

Financial Dependence and Trauma

  • Financial dependence can trap betrayed partners, limiting their choices after discovery.
  • Returning to work after a long break can be challenging, evoking feelings of inadequacy and fear.
ADVICE

Seeking Help

  • Seek professional help, including therapists and financial advisors, after discovering betrayal.
  • Validate your feelings and don't dismiss financial complexities; get support to understand them.
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