Shining With ADHD by The Childhood Collective #204: ADHD and Arguing: How to Stop the Cycle of Negotiation
SHINING WITH ADHD
#204: ADHD and Arguing: How to Stop the Cycle of Negotiation
The Childhood Collective
10/15/2025
SUMMARY
If it feels like you and your child are stuck in the same argument on repeat, you’re not alone. Many of us find ourselves caught in the “conflict loop," or a cycle of arguing, negotiating, and giving in that leaves everyone frustrated. In this episode, we break down what the conflict loop looks like and how parents can avoid getting pulled into endless back-and-forths. With a few intentional shifts, you can reduce daily battles and create more peace at home.
MEET OUR TEAM
We are Lori, Mallory, and Katie. Lori and Mallory are child psychologists, and Katie is a speech language pathologist. Most importantly, we are moms, just like you. After working with families over a combined total of 40 years, we saw a need to provide ongoing support and education to parents raising children with ADHD.
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