NLP MasterCLASS

Episode 9 - Looking at things from anothers perspective - Perceptual Positions

Sep 8, 2020
Explore the fascinating concept of perceptual positioning to gain insight from different perspectives. Learn how stepping back from personal emotions allows you to understand others' viewpoints. Discover the distinct roles of first, second, and third positions in communication. Hear an eye-opening story about a teen and his math tutor that reveals unexpected perceptions. This approach not only enhances self-coaching but also mediates conflicts effectively. Tune in to expand your understanding of interpersonal dynamics!
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INSIGHT

Maps Shape Our Reality

  • We each create a personal 'map' of reality from experiences and filters.
  • This means two people at the same event can perceive entirely different realities.
ANECDOTE

Police Witnesses Had Different Accounts

  • Tina Taylor recalls being a police officer taking differing statements from witnesses at the same crime.
  • Both witnesses described the same event but gave completely different accounts.
ADVICE

Use Perceptual Positioning Regularly

  • Use perceptual positioning to step back from your mental map and distance emotions.
  • Apply it to explore another's map, review performance, plan, mediate, and coach yourself.
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