A Slob Comes Clean

385: Clutter and My Hero Complex

Sep 21, 2023

This episode explores the connection between clutter and the desire to be a hero. It discusses the frustration of not being able to find the right items due to excessive clutter. The chapter also highlights the negative consequences of clutter and hoarding behaviors and how they can hinder personal goals. The value of a clutter-free home for hosting events and gatherings is emphasized.

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Quick takeaways

Keeping items for hypothetical future scenarios can contribute to clutter in the home.

Accepting the reality of one's clutter threshold and embracing the limitations of available space are essential for maintaining a clutter-free environment.

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The Relationship Between Clutter and the Hero Complex

The podcast explores the connection between clutter and the desire to be a hero in various situations. The speaker reflects on how keeping things for potential future heroic purposes can contribute to clutter in the home. They discuss the importance of accepting the reality of one's clutter threshold, the amount of stuff that can be easily managed and kept under control. The speaker emphasizes the need to focus on everyday life and prioritize the present rather than holding onto items for hypothetical future scenarios.

Introduction

3min

The Connection Between Clutter and the Desire to Be a Hero

11min

The Impact of a Hero Complex on Clutter

4min

Therapy, Ready-to-Eat Meals, and Clutter Threshold

3min

Consequences of Clutter and Hoarding

22min

The Hero Complex and Overcoming Clutter

3min

I've realized that a lot of the things I held onto "just in case" were things I envisioned saving the day. Won't I be glad I had that? Won't everyone ooh and aah if I end up already having the very thing we needed in that dire situation that could possibly happen one day? I've found this to be common in a lot of us who struggle with clutter. We like dramatic stories and we love to be the hero in those dramatic stories. But when we keep so much stuff that we can't actually find the thing when we finally need it, heroism turns into a hero complex.