Why Softness Is Strength For Humans With CPTSD

What role does self-compassion play in healing from trauma?

Softness plays a crucial role in the healing journey from complex trauma, offering a path to self-compassion and profound internal transformation. According to Tanner, softness is vital in trauma healing as it signifies a release from trauma-induced responses, allowing individuals to connect with their true selves. Drawing from her experiences, Tanner underscores the significance of embracing softness and vulnerability, viewing it as an act of immense strength and courage. She points out the challenges of shifting from aggressive power dynamics, often learned in childhood, to fostering gentler, more compassionate relationships both with oneself and others. Through this approach, Tanner advocates for the importance of letting go of protective mechanisms to cultivate a nurturing environment for healing.

Key TakeAways

- Softness and self-compassion are essential in trauma healing journeys

- Protective Parts can hinder access to one's true self and prevent the experience of softness

- Recognizing and befriending protective parts is crucial for healing and rediscovering one's true self

- Cultivating self-compassion and opening up to safe individuals play a crucial role in healing from trauma

- Exploring protective parts in the parts work journey helps navigate our internal system and cultivate resilience

Actionable Insights

- Practice self-compassion and softness in trauma healing journeys

- Recognize and unblend with Protective Parts to access True Self

- Cultivate a sense of softness and vulnerability for healing

- Open up to safe supporters for care, love, and guidance

- Explore and befriend Protective Parts for inner healing