Axis Conversations Ask Axis: "How do I talk to my teens about swearing?"
Jan 13, 2026
The hosts explore the evolving landscape of language and its impact on teens. They discuss parental rights in setting language standards and emphasize teaching wise speech over sticking to a list of bad words. Personal stories reveal how swearing can open new perspectives on faith. The conversation highlights the cultural shift in what constitutes acceptable language, with a focus on correcting kids without shame. Additionally, they differentiate between rudeness and dehumanizing language, offering thoughtful guidance for parents.
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Context Determines What’s Profane
- Acceptability of profanity depends on the audience and community, not a universal list of bad words.
- Teach teens to speak wisely and avoid angry, corrosive language rather than only policing words.
A College Friend Shaped Perspective
- Evan describes a college friend who was edgy, tattooed, and swore but loved Jesus passionately.
- That friend’s rough edges helped Evan see Christianity’s depth beyond polite appearances.
Set Clear Home Language Rules
- Set clear household rules: you can say, “In our home, I don't want you to use those words.”
- Explain the reasons behind the rule so teens understand character and community expectations.