How to Talk + Learn About Race (with Amber Coleman-Mortley)
Mar 27, 2025
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Amber Coleman-Mortley, an expert in facilitating discussions about race, guides listeners through the important nuances of talking about race with various age groups. She emphasizes the value of curiosity and empathy, making these conversations as relatable as discussing sandwiches. Amber shares practical tips for parents on addressing race with children, promoting inclusivity, and leveraging personal privileges for empowerment. The conversation encourages open dialogue and reflection, making the topic accessible and essential for all.
Talking about race with children encourages empathy and understanding, helping them navigate a multicultural world effectively.
Modeling inclusive behavior and engaging with diverse communities broadens children's perspectives on cultural differences and promotes respect.
Deep dives
The Importance of Discussing Race with Children
Parents face the challenge of talking to their children about race in a sensitive and effective manner. It is crucial for children to acknowledge and understand racial differences rather than ignoring them, as doing so can lead to harmful oversimplifications. Discussing race openly allows children to appreciate the diverse cultural experiences that contribute positively to society. This dialogue encourages empathy and awareness while equipping children with the skills needed to navigate a multicultural world.
Modeling Inclusivity Through Action
Practical steps for parents include modeling inclusive behavior rather than merely discussing it. Engaging with people from diverse backgrounds offers learning experiences that help children understand different cultures. Parents should seek friendships and participate in community events that celebrate various cultural backgrounds, as involvement in diverse environments broadens children's perspectives. Incorporating these experiences into family life can foster appreciation and respect for differences among individuals.
Navigating Curiosity and Empathy
Helping children navigate their curiosity about race should happen through respectful inquiry and empathetic communication. Parents can guide their children to express curiosity in a thoughtful way, ensuring they engage in conversations that elevate understanding of others' experiences. Encouraging respectful questioning can foster deeper connections and resolve misunderstandings related to cultural differences. This approach helps children learn to appreciate the complexities of societal interactions, allowing for a more nuanced worldview.
Advocacy and Empowerment in Everyday Scenarios
Advocacy begins in the smallest spaces, such as the playground, where children can learn to speak up against injustice and provide support to peers. Teaching kids to discern when to act, when to support silently, and when to step back empowers them to approach social situations thoughtfully. Children must recognize the importance of supporting peers in less confrontational ways, rather than inserting themselves into every situation. This skill builds not only their confidence but also fosters a sense of community and belonging.
We all need need to do the work, and will be better for it. Christine talks with Amber Coleman-Mortley, who maintains a frame of you don’t know what you don’t know, recognizes that we all make mistakes and that things can get uncomfortable, encourages curiosity and empathy and connecting at a human level, and wants us to lift others up. She makes talking about race as easy as talking about sandwiches. Literally. This compassionate episode is loaded with practical advice.
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