

The Rise of Women's Porn with Phylicia Masonheimer
6 snips May 13, 2025
Phylicia Masonheimer, author and founder of Every Woman a Theologian, dives into the rising trend of women’s pornographic literature. She discusses how media representations shape women's expectations of love and romance, critically examining the impact of erotic literature on perceptions of masculinity. Masonheimer highlights the emotional consequences and societal shame women face, advocating for open conversations to foster healthier relationships. The discussion urges reevaluation of media exposure to encourage discernment and spiritual growth.
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Defining Pornography Clearly
- Pornography is defined by its purpose to cause sexual arousal, distinguishing it from nakedness without shame like in art or nature photography.
- This distinction helps clarify why some images aren't pornographic despite nudity being present.
Gender Differences in Porn Preference
- Women prefer porn that allows them to imagine themselves as the main character, often found in erotic audiobooks or literature.
- Men tend to seek visual pornography as a way to feel desired, showing gender differences in how desire is processed.
Phylicia's Erotic Fiction Journey
- Phylicia Masonheimer shared her story of discovering erotic fiction at age 12 and how it led to a secret addiction impacting her view of men and dating life.
- She found the men in these books were aggressive and dominant, which distorted her understanding of masculinity and affected her relationships.