What do you do when your body wants out…
but your history begs you to stay?

This episode is for the version of you standing at the edge of the known, heart pounding, holding the weight of someone else’s comfort and your own awakening. A listener asked what to do when you’re torn between staying or leaving your marriage—and I brought the full fucking truth.

No clean answers.
Just deep clarity.
And the kind of courage that tastes like grief and freedom at the same time.

✨ What we explore inside:
🔸 The invisible cost of “just one more year”
🔸 How your nervous system gets addicted to familiar pain—and how to break the loop
🔸 Why compatibility is more than shared goals (and what to do when the ingredients no longer match)
🔸 Making decisions from truth instead of trauma—even when it rocks your entire life
🔸 How to stop outsourcing your clarity—and bring your power back home

This isn’t about leaving.
It’s about leading—yourself, first.

Because clarity doesn’t always come before the leap.
But aliveness does come after.

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