The Suzanne Venker Show Ep. 160: The Secular Case Against Shacking Up
Mar 2, 2023
The dangers of living together before marriage are laid bare, revealing how it can lead to uncertainty in relationships. Insights are offered for parents on discussing cohabitation's implications with their children. Personal stories and societal critiques illustrate the loss of commitment that can arise from shacking up. Listeners are encouraged to consider the true value of commitment in long-term relationships.
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Young Woman's Cohabitation Question
- A young caller to the Dave Ramsey show asked about splitting rent when moving in with her boyfriend.
- Suzanne Venker immediately advised against it, calling the boyfriend "out of his mind."
Suzanne's Personal Story on Cohabitation
- Suzanne shared her own story of declining to move in with her boyfriend at 22 due to no future guarantee.
- She stressed the importance of knowing your relationship's future before cohabitating.
Lessons on Cohabitation and Life Costs
- Living with someone before your future is clear costs years of your life if the relationship ends.
- Women especially want security, and cohabitation without commitment creates insecurity.