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Perry Gladstone on his father - He Was Enough

Jun 25, 2025
Perry Gladstone, a coach and strategic advisor, reflects on the life of his father, Al Gladstone, a community builder and key figure in Canada's folk dance movement. Al's journey was rooted in connection and authenticity, often overshadowed by intergenerational trauma. Perry reveals how his father's quest for connection shaped his own identity and career, emphasizing that being true to oneself is what the world needs. This heartfelt exploration invites listeners to appreciate the power of legacy and the stories that connect us all.
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INSIGHT

Folk Dancing as Community Catalyst

  • Perry's dad used folk dancing as a medium to connect people and create community shared experiences.
  • Despite apparent joy, an underlying fear motivated his deep need for connection and safety.
ANECDOTE

Flea Market as Connection Medium

  • Perry recalled how his dad refused to give a price at the flea market just to prolong conversation and connection.
  • This behavior frustrated buyers but was his way of engaging people beyond sales transactions.
INSIGHT

He Did Enough: The Deep Legacy of Connection and Acceptance from Al Gladstone

Perry Gladstone reveals the profound truth he wishes his father, Al Gladstone, could truly believe: "He did enough." Despite leaving when Perry was very young, Al spent his life making up for it through unconditional love and active connection, especially via folk dancing and community building.

Al used folk dance and flea market banter not for sales but as tools to cultivate human connection, creating safe spaces for others even as he sought safety himself due to generational trauma. Perry reflects, "Being who you are is enough. And it's what the world really needs."

Documenting Al's life with multiple voices could have helped him truly see his impact and believe in his enoughness. Perry wishes for his father to hear from others how he profoundly mattered, something he felt was missing.

This insight explores legacy, identity, and unconditional support, highlighting the powerful gift of acceptance across generations.

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