292: My Wife Wants Another Kid, But I Don't | Feedback Friday

Dec 20, 2019

A listener grapples with the tough choice of expanding their family while considering their spouse's desire for a third child. They discuss the balance of personal happiness and societal expectations in family dynamics. The conversation then shifts to ethical dilemmas in the workplace, such as repercussions from dozing off on the job. Transitioning careers from athletics sparks a dialogue about the value of education versus experience. Listeners are engaged with tips on improving writing and managing digital clutter for enhanced productivity.

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Navigating Health Concerns

Involve your wife and her doctor in health decisions, but avoid using health concerns as a manipulative tactic.
Be honest about your own desires and motivations.

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Honest Self-Reflection

Journal your feelings and make a pros and cons list about having another child.
Discuss all implications with your wife, but evaluate your own feelings first.

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Considering a Third Child

Honestly evaluate your financial situation and potential lifestyle changes.
Consider your wife's potential long-term disappointment if you don't have another child.

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You've got two lovely kids, and you're perfectly content to stop there, but your spouse has other plans. How do you break the news you're not of like mind to have a third? We'll try to tackle this and more on the latest Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Your spouse has been pushing for a third child, but you figure two is enough. Is there a way to find common ground?
Your sibling and their fiance have decided to get married on one of the few nights you can't get out of work. To whom do you owe your loyalty?
Your mother stopped making payments on a parent loan taken out for your education, and now you're stuck with $28,000 in interest. What happens next?
You accidentally fell asleep on the job, and if you don't adjust your time card, no one else would be the wiser. What should you do?
Retiring from a professional athletic career, you wonder if your BA in economics will cut it for your next career move, or if you should go back to school?
Your friend is publishing articles about his industry in order to raise his profile at work. But how do you tactfully suggest that his writing is sorely in need of editing?
Life Pro Tip: If you're on a Mac, use Bartender, Endurance, FruitJuice, and iStat Menus.
Recommendation of the Week: Broken
Quick shout outs to Melissa Kellogg and Jon Bjork!
Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
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Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, join his podcasting club, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.

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