Are digital parents much better than our original mom and dad?
Apr 2, 2024
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Guests Laiming, Niu Honglin, and Yushun discuss the rise of online videos featuring digital parents offering emotional support to individuals. They explore the impact on real-life relationships, and the nostalgic appeal of instant cameras among young people in China.
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Seeking virtual parental affection serves as a coping mechanism for emotional disconnection.
Digital parent-child interactions offer practical skills and emotional warmth often lacking in real relationships.
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Emergence of Make-Believe Parents Online
Young people in China have developed a dependency on videos featuring pretend parents who offer guidance and affection different from their own parents. These vloggers post videos on Chinese TikTok role-playing parent-child interactions with a focus on love over discipline. The appeal lies in teaching practical skills and providing emotional warmth that resonates with viewers, creating a sense of closeness and care.
Alternative Familial Affection and Emotional Support
Many young viewers, unable to connect emotionally with their real parents, turn to these digital parent figures for familial affection and emotional support. The videos allow viewers to express authentic feelings and vulnerabilities, seeking comfort and understanding in a nurturing virtual parental relationship created by influencers.
Navigating Relationships and Risks of Digital Parenting
The popularity of digital parents raises concerns about substituting real communication with the short-term emotional satisfaction derived from these videos. While some see the videos as promoting idealized parent-child relationships, others caution against overlooking the complexities and imperfections of real-life parent-child dynamics. Viewers are advised to be cautious of potentially unreal expectations and to be mindful of the emotional impact of prolonged reliance on these digital parental figures.
Some young people in China are seeking on the internet for a feeling of being pampered by make-believe parents. Is this a sign of some hidden issues about family relationships in our society? And can parents and young adults both learn from such content? / Polaroid is making a comeback among young people in China (21:33). On the show: Laiming, Niu Honglin & Yushun
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