Do People Respect Me?: BK Shivani : Sister Shivani lockdown special events
Sep 29, 2020
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BK Shivani discusses the impact of unfair expectations on relationships and happiness. She emphasizes the importance of respecting individual choices and karmic accounts, advocating for unconditional love and support.
Expecting others to meet our expectations can lead to disappointment and hurt in relationships.
Accepting differences and relinquishing control over others' actions fosters healthier and more harmonious connections.
Deep dives
Impact of Expectations on Relationships
Expecting others to meet our expectations can lead to disappointment and hurt in relationships. The podcast highlights how expecting others to behave in ways that conform to our desires can create unhappiness and strain in interactions. By focusing on what we want from others rather than understanding their perspective, we risk damaging relationships and missing out on genuine connection.
Accepting Differences and Letting Go of Control
The podcast emphasizes the importance of accepting differences in relationships and relinquishing control over others' actions. It discusses how rigid expectations can hinder the growth of relationships and cause unnecessary conflict. By letting go of the need to mold others according to our wishes and understanding their unique paths and choices, we can foster healthier and more harmonious connections.
BK Shivani explains how our expectations can often be so unfair. We do not even realize they exist, until we feel frustrated by their non-fulfillment. Expectations means we decide that people should be our way. We believe they love us and respect us, only when they are our way. People can respect us even if they do not meet our expectations.
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