The Strong Stoic Podcast #396 - Life Isn’t Fair — And That’s the Point
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Dec 30, 2025 Explore the harsh reality that life isn't fair and how Stoicism equips us to handle this truth with grace. Discover the distinction between character and reputation, and when honesty might not be the best policy. Learn to reassess outcomes while staying focused on personal effort, and find out when it's wise to remain silent. Through anecdotes and philosophical insights, gain tools for maintaining composure under pressure and responding to unfairness without falling into bitterness. This journey encourages compassion over blunt honesty.
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Accept Life's Inherent Unfairness
- Life is inherently unfair and results are often out of our control despite our best efforts.
- Focus on doing your best and detach from outcomes to avoid bitterness and frustration.
Calmly Correct Misunderstandings
- When your effort isn't recognized, calmly present factual evidence of your work instead of attacking or sulking.
- Remove emotion and explain observable behaviors to correct misconceptions without escalating the situation.
Afterlife Hospital Example
- Brandon uses a scene from Ricky Gervais's Afterlife where a dying child asks about heaven to illustrate a moral dilemma.
- The example shows that sometimes compassion, not literal truth, is the appropriate response.