Lez Hang Out | A Lesbian Podcast 810: Urge to Merge
Jan 4, 2025
Dive into a lively discussion about the societal pressures of the 'urge to merge' in relationships, particularly from a queer perspective. The hosts tackle the stereotypes of codependency while celebrating deep emotional bonds as a natural part of love. They also explore the evolving landscape of queer musicals and share personal anecdotes, reflecting on the balance between individual identity and connection. Laughter fills the air as they highlight the uniqueness of everyday intimacy and the importance of community engagement.
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Closeness vs. Codependency
- Societal norms often pathologize closeness in relationships, especially for women.
- This is likely due to men's discomfort with emotional intimacy, projected onto women's behavior.
Leigh and Kelsey's Togetherness
- Ellie asks Leigh about time spent together with Kelsey when they first started dating.
- Leigh answers that they spent all their time together, and still do.
Straight vs. Lesbian Relationships
- Straight couples often have separate hobbies and friend groups, unlike many lesbian couples.
- This reinforces that closeness is normal in queer relationships, not codependency.