Psychology In Seattle Podcast Naive Boyfriends, Ex Dreams, and Butler Syndrome
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Sep 26, 2025 Listeners dive into the complexities of navigating relationships with best friends turned partners. There’s a fascinating discussion on the significance of recurring dreams about exes and what they reveal about our psyche. The hosts also explore the importance of therapy in internalizing self-worth and the healing power of corrective experiences. Light-hearted banter about personal plans adds a fun twist, making for an engaging mix of insights and humor.
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Model, Don't Label
- Model the emotional skills you want from your partner instead of labeling them as 'selfish.'
- Lead with compassion and example; this often invites your partner to mirror healthier behavior.
Clarify The Relationship's Purpose
- Partners may hold different visions for the relationship and rarely discuss them explicitly.
- Clarifying why you're together prevents mismatched expectations and resentment.
Talk About Recurring Dreams
- Don't punish yourself for involuntary dreams; treat them as information, not moral failures.
- Consider sharing recurring dreams with your partner to defuse secrecy and reduce their emotional charge.