Finding A High Quality Wife (A Step By Step Guide) - Ep. 018
Oct 25, 2023
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The hosts discuss the importance of finding a high quality wife and starting a family at a young age. They address the frustration with the victim mentality some men have when it comes to women and the benefits of seeking advice from other men. They reflect on the lessons learned from premarital sex and emphasize the importance of moving past the modern concept of boyfriend and girlfriend. They provide a step-by-step guide on finding a high quality wife and emphasize the need to change mindset and pursue marriage.
Let go of the doomer mindset and focus on finding one woman who shares the desire to build a life and legacy together.
Know who you are, what you want, and where you are going to attract a high-quality wife who aligns with your goals and values.
Be intentional in your search for a wife by actively pursuing compatibility from the start and avoiding wasting time with individuals who do not share the same long-term goals.
Deep dives
Drop the Doom or Mindset
It is important for men to let go of the doom or mindset that portrays all women as bad or marriage as a lost cause. Instead, they should focus on finding one woman who shares the desire to build a life and legacy together. This shift in mindset allows for a more positive and proactive approach to finding a high-quality wife.
Build Your Frame
To find a high-quality wife, it is crucial for men to know who they are, what they want, and where they are going. This includes having a clear direction and vision for their lives, as well as understanding their own values and priorities. By developing a strong sense of self and purpose, men can attract a woman who aligns with their goals and values.
Know What You're Looking For
Men should be intentional in their search for a wife by seeking out women who also desire marriage and family life. It is important to avoid wasting time with individuals who do not share these same long-term goals. By actively pursuing compatibility from the start, men can ensure that their potential partner is on the same page and ready for a committed relationship.
Approaching and Talking to Women
Approaching and talking to women requires a willingness to face rejection and actively pursue relationships. It is important to take dating seriously and not expect things to simply fall into place. Being clear about who you are, what you want, and where you're going is key. This may attract some criticism and rejection, but it also serves as a sign that you're heading in the right direction. Being bold and polarizing can be attractive to the right women, and it helps identify compatibility early on.
Finding a High-Quality Wife
The process of finding a high-quality wife involves having both standards and grace. It is important to have a clear standard of what you're looking for, but also be open to unexpected qualities and growth in a potential partner. The idea of a perfect, untarnished partner is unrealistic, and having grace for someone's past mistakes is crucial. Wisdom and discernment are necessary to evaluate compatibility and not let others impose their standards on you. Ultimately, it's about finding someone who aligns with your vision and desires, and being willing to invest in the relationship to help it flourish.
This is the A-Z guide on going from single to happily married. Brendan & Mike lay out a clear path, offer essential reminders, and highlight clear do's and don'ts when dating with the intention of marriage.
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INTRO (00:55)
DROP THE DOOMER MINDSET. (03:32)
BUILD YOUR FRAME. (11:13)
KNOW WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR. (20:43)
HAVE A STANDARD, BUT HAVE GRACE TOO. (29:10)
BE WILLING TO LEAD HER FORWARD. (37:04)
ASSESS YOUR COMPATIBILITY FROM A SOBER MIND. (40:14)
DON’T WASTE TIME AS “BOYFRIEND AND GIRLFRIEND” (44:42)
GET MARRIED, BRO. (48:46)
CLOSING THOUGHTS: (52:43)
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