State of the World from NPR An Adored Grandfather’s Funeral Exposes Painful Realities of a Beloved Country
Oct 15, 2025
Emmanuel Akinwotu shares a heartfelt account of his grandfather's vibrant funeral in Nigeria, showcasing traditional Yoruba customs full of music and dance. However, the celebration is marred by disturbing realities, such as extortion at the gravesite and demands for money from church leaders and local officials. This highlights a troubling pattern where funerals become profiteering opportunities, especially for city families returning to their villages. Amidst the grief, there are moments of joy as the family honors their beloved patriarch's wishes.
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Festival-Style Funeral In Yoruba Tradition
- Emmanuel Akinwotu describes his grandfather's funeral as a joyful, two-day festival with music, dancing, and tributes.
- The procession, songs, and family celebrations honored Yoruba tradition of missing but not mourning the deceased.
Grief Complicated By Demands
- Emmanuel recounts the emotional strain on his mother as greedy demands intruded into the ceremonies.
- He says the stress robbed him of the moment he needed to say a final goodbye to his grandfather.
Extortion At The Gravesite
- Young men blocked the village entrance and demanded payment before allowing the procession in, interrupting the funeral.
- Church ministers also pressed the family for cash gifts and other requests before rites could proceed.