What Does Depression Feel Like? Hobbs on Loneliness, Fatigue, Survival, and Finding Hope

How do you deal with depression in isolation?

In this candid conversation, Hobbs shares how the pandemic amplified his depression — making simple questions like “how are you?” nearly impossible to answer. He describes the exhaustion of constant change, the loneliness of lost routines, and the crushing weight of moods that could shift within hours.

Through honesty and reflection, Hobbs reveals the coping tools that keep him going: community, exercise, medication, and sharing stories. His words are a reminder that depression lies, isolation magnifies it — but survival is possible with the right supports.

If you’ve ever wondered how to deal with depression when you feel exhausted and alone, this story will resonate.

Primary Topics Covered:

• Why “How are you?” became a complicated question in the pandemic
• Hobbs’ lived experience with depression, isolation, and exhaustion
• The impact of shifting moods on daily life and identity
• Why community and connection are lifelines in dark times
• Physical exhaustion and brain fog as symptoms of depression
• Tools Hobbs uses to cope: exercise, medication, and routine
• Battling stigma around men and antidepressants
• The importance of preparing a “depression toolbox” before crisis
• Why depression lies — and connection tells the truth

Timestamps:

00:00 Intro — revisiting an archived conversation
 01:00 Why “how are you?” feels different in uncertain times
 02:30 Hobbs on mood swings: “I can only tell you how I feel right now”
 04:10 How negativity and the news shape mental health
 05:40 The loneliness of lost routines and disconnection
 07:40 Exhaustion and sleeping up to 18 hours
 09:50 Physical toll of depression: clenched jaw, fatigue
 11:00 Why brain fog is part of survival, not weakness
 12:15 The healing power of hearing others’ stories
 14:00 Fighting depression’s “always” and “never” lies
 15:40 Hobbs’ depression toolbox: exercise, meds, community
 17:30 Breaking stigma: men and antidepressants
 18:50 Closing reflections: speak up, listen up, stay connected

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