Nobody told Eva Oh that there would be an influx of younger folk interested in dating women much older than them. Eva is called “mature” by a date for the first time and “Mommy” by multiple admirers and it stirs thoughts on how she could best approach this surprise. A #teakink episode that makes obvious the difference between the conversations we have around older men dating younger women versus the far more swept under the rug world of the older dating woman.

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HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - Being Called “Mature” on Dating Apps
(00:55) - What Do I Do?!
(01:12) - What I’m Looking For
(02:25) - Nobody Told Me That There’d Be All This Interest
(03:00) - “Cougars” and Their Fans
(04:45) - Cindy Gallop’s TED Talk
(06:25) - My Largest Age Gap
(07:00) - Do I Entertain It?
(07:30) - A Slave’s Age and Privilege Gap
(08.55) - My First Age Gap Date
(11:25) - How Desirability Evolves and What Sex Work Taught Me About It
(12:45) - The More Commonly Talked About “Silver Fox”
(14:10) - How I Might Embrace Being Called “Mommy”
(16:30) - Age and Height on Dating Apps
(18:00) - What is Appropriate? Give Me Dating Advice.
(20:14) - Becoming Mommy Part 2?

Aging and Dating, Becoming “Mommy”