Dealing with Helicopter Moms, with Dr. Greg Psaltis
Jan 30, 2024
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In this enlightening chat, Dr. Greg Psaltis, a recently retired pediatric dentist with 40 years of experience and a sought-after speaker on behavior management, shares his wisdom. He dives into how parenting styles, especially helicopter parenting, have shifted over the years. Tips for managing overprotective parents are offered, emphasizing the importance of listening and balance. Dr. Psaltis also recounts how behavior management has evolved in dental settings, fostering trust and comfort to enhance children’s dental experiences.
Dr. Psaltis highlights the shift in parenting styles from authoritative techniques to a more collaborative approach, complicating behavior management.
Effective communication and boundary setting are crucial when navigating the challenges posed by helicopter parents in pediatric dentistry.
Deep dives
Changing Dynamics in Pediatric Dentistry
The podcast discusses the evolution of behavior management in pediatric dentistry over the decades, highlighting changes in parent behavior and expectations. Dr. Greg Saltis, a seasoned pediatric dentist, reflects on how parenting styles have shifted significantly since he started his career in the late 1970s. He notes that the authoritative approach once prevalent has transitioned to a more collaborative, but often challenging, dynamic, with parents frequently exhibiting more anxiety about their children's dental experiences. This change has necessitated a more nuanced understanding of both child and parent behavior in practice to ensure positive patient outcomes.
Behavior Management Techniques
Dr. Saltis emphasizes the importance of effective behavior management strategies, drawing from his extensive experience to illustrate the significance of establishing rapport with both children and parents. He explains that early in his career, traditional methods, such as hand-over-mouth techniques, were common, but he found success by fostering a trusting relationship instead. By focusing on communication and patient comfort, he developed a practice model that prioritized building a child's confidence in dental settings. Saltis advocates for using simple phrases that invite parents into the conversation while setting clear behavior expectations, thereby improving the overall experience.
Balancing Professionalism and Parental Concerns
The podcast delves into the complexities of managing difficult parents and their expectations, particularly in light of modern parenting trends. Dr. Saltis shares the vital role of clear communication and boundary setting when dealing with helicopter parents who can be overly involved in their child's care. He discusses the necessity of establishing a universal set of guidelines for parents while tailoring his approach based on individual parent dynamics. By empowering parents to understand the treatment process, he believes it alleviates some of their anxieties while promoting trust in the dental practice.
Reflecting on a Successful Career
Dr. Saltis concludes the conversation by reflecting on the rewarding moments of his long career, underlining the positive impact he has made on his young patients. He recounts how many former patients return, expressing gratitude for their dental experiences, and even inviting him to significant life events like weddings. This sense of fulfillment is contrasted with occasional challenges, such as dealing with difficult behaviors during appointments, which are viewed as opportunities for growth rather than setbacks. Saltis encourages fellow practitioners to focus on the long-term outcomes of their efforts, emphasizing the ultimate goal of fostering a positive relationship between children and dentistry.
I had the pleasure of hosting the great Dr. Greg Psaltis on the podcast today. Dr. Psaltis came recommended by 3 different listeners of the podcast, so I figured let's give the people what they want to hear! Dr. Psaltis recently retired after a 40 year career as a pediatric dentist. He is an accomplished speaker and lectures on behavior management all across the country.
Today we discuss how behavior management has changed over the decades. Dr. Psaltis gives some tips and guidance on dealing with difficult parents and helicopter moms.
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