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Jan 12, 2024 A.J. Daulerio, a writer and creator of "The Small Bow," shares his compelling journey through recovery and personal growth. He candidly discusses the pivotal question of when to stop drinking and the emotional discomfort tied to initiatives like Dry January. A.J. reflects on his chaotic media career at Gawker, revealing how external success can coexist with struggle. The conversation highlights the importance of community support, self-love, and the unique joys found in sobriety, providing listeners with insightful perspectives on addiction and recovery.
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First Rehab Experience
- At 19, A.J. Daulerio first entered rehab for depression, masking it as a drinking problem.
- Though not ready for sobriety then, he sensed he'd return, recognizing his inability to handle substances "like normal people".
Underlying Unease
- Daulerio's substance use masked a "deep sense of unease" throughout his life.
- He sought solutions for these feelings of inadequacy, depression, and anxiety, feeling perpetually left out.
Failing Upward
- In the early 2010s, A.J. Daulerio experienced professional success despite personal struggles with substance abuse.
- He "failed upwards," his "fuck-up" persona and internet provocateur image ironically contributing to his career advancement.