

1207: Hoping Her 1%er 'Old Man' Is a Flash in the Pan | Feedback Friday
32 snips Sep 12, 2025
This week, the hosts tackle a listener's concerns about her sister's relationship with a 1%er from an outlaw motorcycle club, blending humor with serious advice on the potential dangers involved. They also discuss the challenges of connecting with a stepdaughter returning home after an abusive relationship, emphasizing the need for open communication amidst chaos. Additionally, insights on navigating community conflicts and personal struggles round out the conversation, making for an engaging mix of humor and heartfelt support.
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1% Clubs Carry Ambiguous But Real Risks
- One-percenter motorcycle clubs vary: some are social while others have organized-crime links and violence.
- Hanging around these groups raises nontrivial legal and safety risks for peripheral people like girlfriends.
Biker Bravado vs. Domestic Mooching
- The sister paid for underwear, dog supplies, and arthritis cream while the boyfriend lived with his parents.
- He never took her to dinner and relied on mom's meals, illustrating mooching behavior despite biker bravado.
Use A Fact-Based Family Intervention
- Do hold a calm family intervention focused on concern and facts rather than shaming.
- Ask your sister to explain her choices and keep the door open while staying firm about risks to her kids and business.