Bitesize Episode 65 - Hen Parties Unveiled: Games, Locations, and a Slice of British Culture
Sep 22, 2023
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Join Charlie and Stacey as they explore the modern British hen party, discussing location choices, games, and the significance of the event. They also touch on changes in hen parties over time, share funny phone mishaps, and talk about wedding preparations including vow writing and mini moons.
Hendus have evolved into more extravagant events lasting two to three days, often involving going abroad and featuring games and quizzes.
Modern Hendus prioritize enjoyable activities for everyone in the group, moving away from traditional elements like sashes and male strippers.
Deep dives
Hendu: A Tradition in the UK
The podcast episode discusses the tradition in the UK known as the Hendu, which is the female version of the stag do. The hosts, Charlie and Stacey, share their experiences and insights on how Hendus have evolved over time. They explain that while stag dos and hen parties used to be a one-day or one-evening event, they have now become more extravagant and typically last two to three days. The hosts also mention that these pre-wedding celebrations are usually single-gender occasions, although some people have other gender friends and feel that this tradition is outdated.
Different Styles and Locations for Hendus
Charlie and Stacey talk about the different styles of Hendus they have experienced. Stacey's recent Hendu in Brighton was wilder due to the large number of people and the location, which is known for its stag dos and hen parties. On the other hand, Charlie's Hendu in the Cotswolds was described as more civilized and wholesome, resembling a mini break with activities like a Mr. and Mrs. Quiz and a cocktail masterclass. They also mention that Hendus nowadays often involve going abroad, lasting two nights, and may include games, quizzes, and dressing up.
Changing Norms and Preferences
The podcast episode highlights the changing norms and preferences for Hendus. The hosts mention that the traditional elements like sashes, willy straws, and male strippers are less common or disliked by many women today. Hendus now tend to focus more on activities that are enjoyable for everyone in the group, such as magic mic shows, female performers, or organized outings like bike rides. The hosts also emphasize that Hendus are an opportunity for close friends to come together, considering that they often live far apart and find it challenging to meet up regularly.
Join Charlie and Stacey as they dissect the modern British hen party. From Brighton's buzz to Cotswolds' calm, and the games that make it a night to remember. We cap it off with a look into "mini moons." Don't miss this lively chat. Useful Links below...