The Moynihan Report Loneliness & love in the 21st century with matchmaker Amy Van Doran | The Moynihan Report
Jul 2, 2025
Amy Van Doran, a professional matchmaker and CEO of Modern Love Club, shares her fascinating journey into matchmaking and the complexities of modern romance. She discusses the impact of technology on relationships and the superficiality of dating apps while emphasizing the importance of genuine connections. With anecdotes of dating challenges, societal expectations, and cultural differences in dating norms, she uncovers the emotional landscape of love in the 21st century. Expect insights on communication, consent, and fostering meaningful connections amidst loneliness.
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Matchmaking Origins in the Park
- Amy Van Doran started matchmaking by sitting in the park for hours, dressed unusually with a lobster on her head.
- People approached her for love advice despite her odd appearance, leading to her matchmaking career.
Dating Gender Imbalance Reality
- There are about 10 women for every 3 men in certain age groups, and the single men often avoid relationships.
- This leads to intense competition among women, and dating preferences are influenced by this imbalance.
Psychedelic Match Success
- Amy matched a podcast host in her 60s with a compatible psychedelic-loving man she found among high-end hippies.
- They fell in love quickly and are happily traveling and spending time together.