Dr. Jim Wilder, a neurotheologian, discusses attachment love with Curt Thompson. They delve into the impact of past traumas on relationships, the evolution of an integrated life model, importance of human connection, navigating pandemic challenges, and the essence of authentic relationships.
Attachment to God shapes beliefs and identity through deep, unwavering love connections.
Intergenerational community connections are vital for human development, combatting isolation and fostering identity.
Deep dives
Dr. Jim Wilder's Journey to Neurotheology
Dr. Jim Wilder shares his spiritual crisis at 19 which led him to engage deeply with faith. His work links interpersonal relationships, brain science, and spiritual formations. Recognizing the importance of strong attachments in therapy, Jim emphasizes the role of joy and relationships in forming human identity. Aligning beliefs with brain function, he highlights the significance of love and attachment in spiritual growth.
The Concept of Attachment Love
Jim delves into the concept of attachment love and its biblical roots. Referring to the Hebrew 'Hhesed' and Greek 'agape', he explores the deep, unwavering love language used in Scripture. He challenges traditional psychology's emphasis on detachment, highlighting the transformative power of securely attached relationships. The discussion reveals how authentic, loving connections shape our spiritual understanding.
Understanding Tacit Knowledge and Attachment
Jim contrasts tacit knowledge, residing in the right hemisphere, with explicit beliefs governed by the left hemisphere. He emphasizes the importance of meaningful, attachment-based relationships over cognitive understanding. Exploring the limitations of conscious thought and the significance of relational circuits in the brain, Jim underscores the role of attachment in shaping beliefs and identity.
The Importance of Intergenerational Connections
Jim emphasizes the need for intergenerational community connections for human development. He discusses the impact of modern isolation on youth, highlighting the importance of giving and receiving in community settings. Jim underscores the role of multi-generational homes in fostering identity and connection. He advocates for restoring authentic, relational experiences to combat isolation and emotional disconnection.
Attachment is a powerful force in our brains. What does attachment to God mean? How do our loves define our beliefs? In this episode, Curt talks with Dr. Jim Wilder, a neurotheologian and founder of Life Model Works about attachment love.
Learn more about Dr. Wilder's work at lifemodelworks.org. Presented by Q Ideas.
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