Rabbi Daniel Lapin Ep 295 | She's Your Wife, Not Your Best Friend!
Aug 16, 2025
Discover the intriguing evolution of male friendships and how social isolation among men is on the rise. Delve into why a wife should be seen as a partner rather than a best friend, highlighting the need for men to connect with other men. Explore the importance of male-only spaces and community bonds, and examine how changing roles of women in religious practices affect men's participation. This discussion sheds light on gender dynamics and the complexities of maintaining healthy relationships in modern society.
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Sharp Decline In Male Friendships
- Male friendships have collapsed from ~98% having friends in 1990 to nearly 50% of men lacking male friends by 2024.
- This dramatic decline reshapes men's social support and places new burdens on spouses.
Men Need Male-Only Spaces
- Mixed-gender groups change male dynamics and reduce the depth of male bonding.
- Men need male-only spaces because interactions differ qualitatively from coed gatherings.
Schedule Regular Male Meetups
- Recreate opportunities for male bonding where work no longer provides them, like pre-home workouts or regular meetups.
- Prioritize scheduling regular in-person time with other men to rebuild social connections.