Speaking of Psychology Making Love Last and Dating in the Digital Age (SOP66)
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Oct 17, 2018 Benjamin Karney, a UCLA social psychology professor and co-director of the UCLA Marriage Lab, dives into the complexities of love and relationships in our fast-paced world. He discusses how economic factors shape marital satisfaction, shedding light on the demand-withdraw dynamic that can lead to conflict. The conversation highlights the distinct challenges faced by diverse couples, including the impact of education on marriage trends among millennials. Karney emphasizes viewing disagreements as collaboration opportunities, making love last amid modern dating challenges.
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Demand-Withdraw in Different Incomes
- Demand-withdraw behavior negatively affects affluent couples' satisfaction.
- However, it may be adaptive for low-income couples due to different circumstances and limitations.
Diverse Samples in Research
- Research on diverse populations is crucial for effective policymaking.
- Policies based on research from one group may not work for others, as seen with the Healthy Marriage Initiative.
Horizontal vs. Vertical Conflicts
- Recognize that most relationship conflicts are horizontal, meaning they are about differing preferences, not right vs. wrong.
- Approach these conflicts as negotiations, not debates, to find compromises.