Pastor to Pastor with Dave Stone

Weddings: A Practical Guide to Writing and Performing Wedding Ceremonies

Sep 9, 2025
Delve into the art of crafting wedding ceremonies that are personal and gospel-centered. Discover the power of weaving in meaningful anecdotes and symbols like unity candles. Gain practical tips for preparation, including final appointments and dress rehearsals. This guide emphasizes the importance of adaptability and personalization to create memorable experiences for couples and their loved ones. Explore how the promise of marriage reflects divine love and encourages deeper connections among all present.
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ADVICE

Make It Personal And Gospel-Centered

  • Make wedding talks personal and gospel-centered to connect with both the couple and the audience.
  • Write for two audiences: the couple and the assembled guests so both are ministered to.
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Collect Stories In One Final Meeting

  • Use a final premarital meeting to gather stories and names that will fill most of the ceremony.
  • Take clear post-it notes in that meeting so 60–70% of your ceremony is already written.
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Ask Six Questions Every Couple

  • Ask six key questions: how you met, first date, engagement, qualities, why stronger together for Christ, and key scriptures.
  • Use their answers to acquaint guests and shape the sermon points.
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