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45 Hard Life Lessons on my 45th Birthday & Brutal Life Lessons From an Ageing Man - Part 1

Jan 5, 2024

Rob, the host, celebrates his birthday by sharing 45 brutal life lessons in business and life. Topics include honesty, loyalty, overcoming fear, taking responsibility, letting go of toxic relationships, and the power of silence and intuition.

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Quick takeaways

People are inclined to lie if it is easier for them than telling the truth, so expecting complete honesty from others is unrealistic.

Not everyone will support or have your back, as many people secretly want others to fail, but acknowledging this can serve as motivation to strive for success.

Deep dives

People are not always honest and loyalty is self-centered

Brutal life lesson number one highlights that people are inclined to lie if it is easier for them than telling the truth. It emphasizes that lying is a common human behavior and expecting everyone to be completely honest is unrealistic. The second lesson emphasizes that loyalty is not inherent and individuals are loyal to themselves and their highest values rather than to others. It suggests that expecting unwavering loyalty from others is a delusion and understanding their priorities can lead to better relationships and influence.

Introduction

5min

Brutal Life Lessons: Lying, Loyalty, and Failure

2min

Choosing the Hard Path for a Rewarding Life

11min

Removing Blocks, Letting Go, and Acting Quickly

2min

Three Hard Life Lessons: Judgment, Silence, and Intuition

2min

It’s Rob’s birthday and in celebration, he wanted to share 45 brutal life lessons that he has learnt over the years. This is part 1, where Rob discusses why there is beauty in brutality and reveals the first 23 of the lessons he has learnt in business and life.

Rob Reveals:

Honest people will lie to you if the lie is easier than telling the truth
People are not loyal
Most people want you to fail
Believing happiness is the meaning of life will make you miserable
You have to do hard things now for an easy life later
What’s worth it isn’t easy, what’s easy isn’t worth it
Everything you don’t like or want is your fault and responsibility
All your fears are just imagination
Everything you judge in others you have done yourself
Security has nothing to do with money
The best form of revenge is kindness
In every stressing, hides a blessing
People treat you the way you teach them to
It’s your responsibility to express when there are problems
Any conflict you avoid now will come back harder
There’s ruthlessness and toothlessness there is no in between
The easiest person to lie to is yourself
If you want the right people in your life you have to let go of those who are wrong for you
Being patient is not always a virtue
Learning from your mistakes is dumber and more expensive than learning from the mistakes of others
Most people aren’t thinking about you
Silence is power
Your intuition is mostly wrong

BEST MOMENTS

"Humans lie, to expect them not to lie is a delusion”

“No one owes you anything”

“If you fail at your dreams it makes them feel more comfortable about their failures”

“There is no such thing as I can’t there is only, how can I?”

“Revenge never ends”

“If you want people to treat you a certain way you have to show them”

“Patience isn’t a virtue anymore”

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ABOUT THE HOST

Rob Moore is an author of 9 business books, 5 UK bestsellers, holds 3 world records for public speaking, entrepreneur, property investor, and property educator. Author of the global bestseller “Life Leverage” Host of UK’s No.1 business podcast “The Disruptive Entrepreneur”

“If you don't risk anything, you risk everything”

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