Morrow Marriage | Disrupting Divorce

When My Partner Won’t Follow | Outgrowing Your Spouse? | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep366

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Jan 20, 2026
What do you do when you feel like you're outgrowing your partner? This discussion dives into the messy realities of relationships where one person is evolving while the other seems stagnant. They tackle the feelings of resentment and explore the toxic patterns that can emerge. From emergency poop stories to expectations morphing into contempt, the conversation is raw and relatable. Plus, tips on handling holiday stress without losing your cool. It’s a call to lead your relationship—growth is a two-way street!
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ADVICE

Brace For Holiday Triggers

  • Brace yourself for predictable holiday triggers and prepare tools to respond rather than react.
  • Validate the feeling behind your partner's contempt to defuse anger and open influence opportunities.
ADVICE

Use The 1-Out-Of-10 Growth Mindset

  • Adopt a growth mindset by rating yourself as a '1 out of 10' to create space for learning.
  • Ask daily: What else can I learn and who can I be around to bridge the gap?
INSIGHT

Criticism Hides A Longing

  • Behind every criticism is a longing for something to be different.
  • Dissect contempt to find the unmet desire your partner is expressing.
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