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The Hidden Law of Influence The 1% Already Know

Jan 6, 2026
Discover why pushing harder might actually backfire in leadership. Learn how calm, magnetic influence can inspire action more effectively than pressure tactics. Explore the emotional connection leaders need to create, ensuring their teams visualize and believe in a shared vision. Uncover the power of energy in leadership, and how the best leaders pull belief out rather than impose it. Get ready to elevate your speaking skills and lead with certainty!
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INSIGHT

Magnetic Influence Beats Pressure

  • Influence works like a magnet, not a hammer, and pushing harder increases resistance.
  • Alignment pulls people forward while pressure pushes them away.
INSIGHT

Pulling Creates Belief, Pushing Triggers Fear

  • The 1% understand influence is about pulling rather than pushing and creating belief.
  • Manipulation pushes with fear while leadership invites with belief.
ADVICE

Begin With Emotion

  • Start with emotion: ask what you want people to feel before you speak.
  • Match your energy to that emotion so people mirror and act on it.
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