Are You "Under Sad"? Understanding the Importance of Grieving for Men

Jul 2, 2025

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In this episode, Stephen Cervantes and I explore the idea of men being “under sad”—when we struggle to recognize or express sadness. We talk about why grieving is essential for emotional health, not just in big losses but in everyday disappointments.

Stephen shares some practical ways to support others in their sadness and encourages us to embrace vulnerability, compassion, and even prayer. Together, we explore that facing our sadness leads to deeper connection, healing, and a more restful, authentic life.

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Topics Covered in this Episode:

The concept of being "under sad" and its implications for emotional awareness, particularly among men.
The significance of grieving as a necessary process for emotional health and personal growth.
Societal norms that discourage men from expressing sadness, leading to emotional suppression.
The dual nature of strength and vulnerability in navigating emotions.
The importance of integrating grieving into daily life as a means of processing emotions.
The role of sadness in fostering deeper connections and empathy with others.
Practical advice for supporting others in their moments of grief and sadness.
The concept of compassion as "suffering with" someone and its importance in healing.
The potential of prayer and spiritual connection in processing sadness and finding solace.
A call to action for individuals to embrace their sadness for emotional wholeness and fulfillment.

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