Dear Chelsea

The Upside of Conflict with Esther Perel

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Dec 7, 2023
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INSIGHT

The Double-Edged Sword of Conflict

  • Conflict is inherent in relationships and can be beneficial for growth and connection.
  • However, unproductive conflict can lead to negative patterns and disconnection.
ADVICE

Constructive Conflict Resolution

  • Avoid kitchen sinking, bringing up past grievances during current arguments.
  • Instead, focus on the present issue, express feelings clearly, and actively listen to your partner's perspective.
ANECDOTE

Prioritizing Friends over Partner

  • A man expressed feeling neglected by his partner, who prioritized friends.
  • Perel advised the partner to acknowledge his feelings and admit her lack of energy for the relationship.
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