Conversations: With Louise Perry, Author and Journalist
Jul 28, 2023
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Journalist and author Louise Perry discusses the impact of the sexual revolution, the potential harm of surrogacy, declining birth rates, the impact on women's happiness, the importance of chivalry, the influence of Christianity, the feminist perspective on marriage, grandparents' obligations, the superficiality of dating apps, and the negative impact of easy access to porn on young people.
The sexual revolution of the 1960s was driven by material changes and an ideological rejection of tradition, resulting in a disconnect between sex and reproduction.
The cultural emphasis on complete sexual freedom without considering potential outcomes has led to a lack of understanding of the consequences of sexual behavior.
Hyper-liberal feminism, rooted in the rejection of tradition, dismisses motherhood as a fundamental part of the female experience and fails to address the negative impact of sex-related industries on women and children.
Deep dives
The Impact of the Sexual Revolution and Material Changes
The sexual revolution of the 1960s was a result of material changes, including the availability of the pill and economic shifts. These changes allowed women to have control over their fertility and participate more in public life. However, the ideological revolution that accompanied it brought about a rejection of tradition and the idea of sex having a sacred status. The sexual revolution has become dominant and questioning its effects is considered taboo. The revolution severed sex from reproduction and changed societal attitudes towards the significance of sex in women's lives.
The Destructive Power and Potentially Cruel Nature of Sexuality
Sexuality can be a force for deep human engagement, love, and joy, but it also has the potential to be cruel, degrading, and destructive. The current cultural emphasis on complete sexual freedom without considering the potential for good or bad outcomes has led to a lack of understanding of the consequences of sexual behavior. The way we conduct our sexuality, driven by demands for freedom, often neglects the potential harm it can cause to individuals and relationships.
The Consequences of Hyper-Liberal Feminism and the Denial of Motherhood
Hyper-liberal feminism, rooted in the rejection of tradition, seeks to erase differences between men and women and prioritizes individual freedom above all else. However, this ideology undermines the idea of sacredness and fails to accommodate the responsibilities and obligations associated with motherhood. The rejection of motherhood as a fundamental part of the female experience has led to a denial of the unique bond between mother and child and the significance of the female body. This ideology dismisses the potential negative impact of sex-related industries, such as surrogacy, on women and children.
The Impact of Modern Sexual Culture on Women
The podcast episode explores the impact of modern sexual culture on women. It highlights that while the sexual revolution promised liberation and empowerment for women, many young women are increasingly unhappy with the current sexual culture. The emphasis on casual sex and detachment prioritizes male sexuality, while neglecting the psychological and physical risks that women face. The podcast points out that women are often pressured to conform to this culture and may not realize the dissonance between their desires and societal expectations. The discussion also touches on the limitations of the consent framework in addressing the complexities of sexual relationships.
The Role of Technology and Pornography in Relationships
The podcast delves into the impact of technology and pornography on relationships. It reflects on how dating apps and online resources have changed the way people meet and form connections. While dating apps offer potential opportunities, they can encourage a superficial approach and a shopping-like mentality. Moreover, the accessibility of instant and vast quantities of explicit pornography is raising concerns, particularly regarding its effects on young people. The episode suggests that both issues require attention and regulation, emphasizing the need for a more conscious approach to technology and sexual content.
John is joined by journalist and author, Louise Perry, for a conversation that unpacks the aftermath of the sexual revolution. In their discussion, Louise outlines both the technological and ideological foundations of the sexual revolution, showing its seismic, often overlooked impact over the last 70 years.
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