EFR 887: Dating Coach Tells What Women REALLY Want! Top Turn-Ons For Women & How to NOT Be Single in the World of Dating Apps with Marni Kinrys

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Dating coach and "Ultimate Wing Girl" Marni Kinrys joins us to share real-world advice for men trying to date with purpose in today’s complex dating landscape. From mastering dating apps to breaking out of the friend zone, Marni offers sharp, practical tips for building confidence, leading with authenticity, and attracting the kind of relationship you actually want.

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In this episode we discuss...

00:00 – Intro: Who is Marni Kinrys?

01:16 – How dating apps have changed everything

02:08 – Why people use apps incorrectly

05:15 – The illusion of choice and dating fatigue

07:34 – Too many options = analysis paralysis

09:37 – Should you give someone a chance if there’s no spark?

10:49 – How to shift energy on a “dud” date

12:48 – Why practicing dates helps you improve

14:13 – Can a woman become more attracted over time?

16:09 – Friend zone recovery: how distance + change works

20:34 – How men can friend-zone women to shift the dynamic

24:46 – Why women compete for validation even without interest

26:08 – Crazy Stupid Love: the psychology of indirect attraction

27:14 – Should men go out with other women publicly?

29:53 – Is pickup artistry dead? (and what remains useful)

33:09 – Confidence vs Cockiness: how to walk the line

36:32 – The #1 way guys accidentally come off arrogant

38:22 – Insecurity disguised as ego: conversation pitfalls

41:24 – Are people dating for fun or a soulmate today?

43:18 – How to date casually the right way

46:20 – What women do on dates that turn men off

48:17 – How bold honesty can change the dating dynamic

50:59 – Not everyone can handle directness — ease into it

52:15 – Nightlife is dead? How to meet people now

54:26 – Creating your own dating/social opportunities

56:01 – Why effort in relationships matters more than ever

58:41 – Breakups: How to rebuild the “I” before dating again

01:01:44 – Should you get back with your ex?

01:04:32 – Can relationships survive cheating?

01:07:32 – Self-awareness and emotional honesty in recovery

01:10:53 – What women actually want: Turn-ons decoded

01:16:31 – Red flags: Rudeness, inconsistency, emotional unavailability

01:21:13 – How to talk about your past without scaring her off

01:24:03 – What “Ever Forward” means to Marni Kinrys

01:26:06 – Get Marni’s free dating course

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