We’re joined by two social types, Ikram & Kristen, to explore the pain and suffering of the social instinct.

— (12:33) Post-zone reflections on social pain and longing
— (16:44) Potential dangers in social space
— (22:48) The naivety of social-blinds with the social game
— (26:50) Why people tear others down to prop themselves up
— (29:47) Social is how we project our inner identities and shadows out into the world
— (36:18) Dysfunctional social sabotage and attachment dynamics
— (40:29) Our nervous systems are regulated by other people / the healing power of connection
— (49:30) Owning your own social danger and parasocial obsessions
— (1:08:33) Personal encounters with social wounding

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