S17 E15 - The Four Places of Advent: The Stable (Part 4)

In this episode, we end our journey at the Stable, the humble place where God chose for us to meet His Son. We reflect on the stable of our own hearts, how Jesus chooses to meet us in our own poverty now, and why His very presence brings healing. We also talk about how when we sit in our emptiness, release control, and surrender each part of our lives to God, He is able to work more powerfully in our lives. Finally, we ponder Mary's quiet and loving gaze upon the Christ Child and how we are invited to slow down and notice Jesus smiling back at us.

Friends, we've deeply enjoyed journeying with you this year. As we take a break, please know you are in our prayers. We will see you on January 19th, 2026 when Season 18 begins! Have a blessed and merry Christmas!

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Finally, we arrive at the Stable — the poorest of places, and yet, the holiest of all.

Here, in straw and silence, the Infinite takes on skin. The cry of a newborn splits the night open, and suddenly, everything is sacred again

The invitation into the mess

Into our own poverty…

The cry of our humanity …

Worship is not what we think it will look like.

Other Resources Mentioned:

• The Nativity Painting by Caravaggio
• Living from the Heart Jesus Gave You by Dr. James Friesen

Journal Questions:

• Where do I find myself in "unsatisfactory condition"?
• What are the scandalous places within me that I want to keep away from the Lord?
• How am I managing my own creativity rather than welcoming the Holy Spirit into my creativity?
• What beliefs am I carrying deeply about God? How does God want to heal these beliefs?
• Where am I afraid?
• How can I make space for Jesus and spend time with Him in this Christmas season?

Discussion Questions:

• How are you tempted to sanitize the Mystery of the Incarnation in your own life?
• Where in my life do I need a new perspective?
• When have you experienced God coming to you in a way you weren't expecting Him to?
• How am I seeking control in this season? How can I surrender that control?
• What are the stables of my life that God is inviting me into deeper surrender?

Quote to Ponder:

"I am so glad Jesus was born in a stable, because my soul is so much like a stable. It's poor and in unsatisfactory condition - Yet, I believe that if Jesus can be born in a stable, maybe he can be born in me." (Dorothy Day)

Scripture for Lectio:

"In those days a decree went out from Emperor Augustus that all the world should be registered. This was the first registration and was taken while Quirinius was governor of Syria. All went to their own towns to be registered. Joseph also went from the town of Nazareth in Galilee to Judea, to the city of David called Bethlehem, because he was descended from the house and family of David. He went to be registered with Mary, to whom he was engaged and who was expecting a child. While they were there, the time came for her to deliver her child. And she gave birth to her firstborn son and wrapped him in bands of cloth, and laid him in a manger, because there was no place for them in the inn." (Luke 2:1-7)

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Chapters:

00:00 Fully Mediterranean

01:37 Intro

02:30 Welcome to the Stable

05:56 Guiding Quote and Scripture Verse

07:12 The Poverty of Our Hearts

11:26 Surrendering the Messy Parts of Our Lives

15:30 Healing Our Image of God

19:31 What it Means to Ponder

21:37 Making Space in the Midst of a Busy Season

28:27 Season 18 Announcement!

28:58 One Things

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