The Russell Moore Show

Listener Question: Where Are All the Mature Christian Single Men?

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Aug 18, 2025
A listener grapples with the challenge of finding mature Christian single men. The discussion explores societal expectations and emphasizes broadening social circles to meet potential partners. Additionally, a notable conversation with Christine Emba highlights the impact of pornography on relational intimacy, stirring further reflection on modern relationships. The podcast encourages listeners to engage by submitting their own questions and offers insights from a Christian perspective.
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INSIGHT

Unrealistic Perfectionism Hurts Relationships

  • Many seek an impossibly perfect, non-sinful partner and then resent real people who fail that ideal.
  • Russell Moore warns that even committed Christians remain flawed and will grow over years, not instantly.
INSIGHT

Quantity Doesn’t Equal Relational Quality

  • Some single women report many men nearby but few who are mature or relationally healthy.
  • Moore recognizes widespread issues like immaturity, porn, and mistreatment among available men.
ADVICE

Actively Seek And Change Your Environment

  • Pray specifically for a spouse and proactively look for contexts where mature Christians gather.
  • Change your environment if necessary by joining new Bible studies or service groups to meet better prospects.
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