What Now? with Trevor Noah Love on a Timeline with Esther Perel [VIDEO]
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Nov 21, 2024 
Trevor welcomes Esther Perel, an internationally renowned couples therapist, to discuss the intricacies of modern relationships. They explore the rollercoaster ride of love, addressing everything from finding the perfect partner to weathering storms together. Esther highlights the shift in therapy's perception, encouraging proactive approaches for growth. They tackle the balance of autonomy and togetherness, and how self-awareness shapes intimacy. With humor and real-life insights, they redefine meaningful connections in an age of digital dating.
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Relationships as Roller Coasters
- People complain about roller coaster lines, scream during the ride, and then want to ride again.
- Relationships, like roller coasters, have ups and downs.
Focus on Self in Relationships
- Ask yourself who you want to be in a relationship, not just who you're looking for.
- Focus on self-reflection before partner selection.
Therapy's Effectiveness
- Over-therapizing is a risk, as therapy can become a way to avoid addressing issues.
- Genuine engagement is key for therapy's effectiveness, not just attendance.