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s07e12 | The Gentle Parenting Trap, with Dr. Camilo Ortiz
Oct 13, 2024
Dr. Camilo Ortiz, an Associate Professor of Clinical Psychology, critiques gentle parenting and its impact on child anxiety. He discusses the rising rates of anxiety in children and advocates for a balanced approach that fosters resilience. Ortiz highlights the importance of allowing children to face discomfort, emphasizing independence over constant reassurance. The conversation also explores the evolution of parenting styles and the role of emotional intelligence across genders, challenging societal fears around childhood autonomy.
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- Over-involved parenting can impede children's ability to handle uncertainty and foster resilience, exacerbating anxiety in their lives.
- Gentle parenting's permissiveness reduces necessary boundaries, hindering children's independence and problem-solving skills needed for real-world challenges.
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The Rise of Child Anxiety
Child anxiety has seen a significant rise, largely attributed to factors such as over-involved parenting and the impact of social media. Psychologists, including Jonathan Haidt, suggest that when parents engage too proactively in their children's lives, they inadvertently inhibit their children's ability to cope with uncertainty. This overprotection limits opportunities for children to develop resilience and adaptability, as they are not allowed to learn from failure or discomfort. Consequently, children may struggle with anxiety as they face real-world challenges unprepared, creating a cycle of dependence and helplessness.
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