Consider This from NPR They Say You Can't Choose Your Family, But Some Do
Dec 28, 2022
Dr. Lexx Brown-James, a marriage and family therapist and sexologist based in St. Louis, explores the profound concept of chosen families—those bonds formed by deep connections rather than blood ties. The conversation dives into personal stories revealing how chosen families provide vital emotional support, especially for those marginalized by their biological families. It also highlights the transformative power these relationships have during struggles, showcasing love and acceptance that can create a safety net in challenging times.
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Siriana's Chosen Family
- Siriana Arti, adopted into a white family, found her chosen family after experiencing abuse and lack of support from her adoptive parents.
- Her chosen family includes her older sister (not biologically related) and childhood friends.
Juanita Moore's Drag Family
- Drag queen Juanita Moore intentionally builds chosen families through mentorship as a "drag mom."
- She describes a heartfelt encounter with a drag child's biological mother who expressed gratitude for Juanita's support.
Chosen Family: Love and Lack of Obligation
- Kaisa Lightfoot emphasizes that chosen family relationships are based on love and lack obligation, unlike biological families.
- She recounts making a friend's first-ever birthday cake, highlighting the profound impact of chosen families.